most wives get really bored with predictable marital sex. Women need variety as much as men. Even a good wife will want a new and different man from time to time. It can actually be good for hubby if it reignites her libido
I love cheating... It's even better when you really love your partner. It doesn't matter who, it matters who it's not... Very exciting to fell a stranger fill your cheating married hole with some adulterous sperm. I did get caught once, he did not enjoy the antibiotics required for the treatment.